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orm Goldman, Editor of href="http://www.Sketchandt     Financial Times, United Airlines' 
ravel.com"                      Hemispheres, Condé Nast          
itle="http://www.Sketchandtravel.     Traveller, among others.          
com"                                                                    
target="_blank">www.Sketchandtrav                                       
el.com and href="http://www.Bookpleasures.co     She is the author of Three        
m"                                    Perfect Days in Paris, aired as a 
title="http://www.Bookpleasures.c     film on all United Airlines       
om"                                   international flights and on      
target="_blank">www.Bookpleasures     television throughout the world.  
.com is excited to have as a      The article has won her the first 
guest, world- wide Paris expert,      award of NATJA (the North         
Thirza Vallois. Thirza is the         American Travel Journalists'      
author of the three volumes of        Association).                     
"Around and About Paris", and                                           
another excellent book, "Romantic                                       
Paris".                                                                 
                                      Thirza has also contributed the   
                                      Paris entry of the latest edition 
                                      of The Encarta Encyclopaedia.     
Thirza has lived in Paris for the                                       
past 40 years and holds several       Thirza is also an expert on the   
post-graduate degrees from La         Aveyron area in southern France.  
Sorbonne. She contributes to          During the past several years has 
television and radio and has          devoted much of her time to       
appeared on PBS, BBC, The Travel      exploring and studying this       
Channel, Discovery, CNN, The          region of France. She is now      
French Cultural Channel, among        completing a new book on this     



last hidden region of France, to                                        
be published in 2006.                                                   
                                      Good day Thirza and thank you for 
                                      accepting to be interviewed by    
                                      sketchandtravel.com and           
Thirza has also informed me that      bookpleasures.com.                
she has been travelling                                                 
extensively in the USA,                                                 
especially to California, about                                         
which she has written a couple       Norm:                             
of articles, with more to follow                                        
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      Thirza, could you tell us         
                                      something about yourself, how you 
                                      started as a travel author and    
                                      writer, how many travel books     
                                      have your written, and why have   
                                      you chosen to write about Paris?  
                                                                        
Today, Thirza will be discussing                                        
with us why Paris is so romantic?                                       
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      Thirza:                           
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      A long time ago, when I was still 



a child, and travelling was still     directory-like guidebooks that    
the privilege of the "happy           make them go through all the      
enlightened few", I happened to       endless lists of touristy         
be blessed with an exceptional        "musts", rather than point them   
mother who believed that the best     to the "real" place, which is the 
school was life itself and that       city itself. It is only through   
the best way to embrace life was      an in-depth exploration and the   
by travelling.                        understanding of a place that one 
                                      can make the most of one's visit, 
                                      and that's what my books "Around  
                                      and About Paris" are all about    
My exposure therefore started at                                        
a very young age, as did my love                                        
for writing, through which I                                            
expressed myself the way one does      Like all forms of                
through painting, singing,            self-expression, there is always  
playing an instrument,                an element of therapy behind the 
dancing.... I never intended to       motivation, and I certainly       
become a writer, it was just part     needed to do my own therapy       
of me. And I never chose to write     regarding Paris when the idea of  
about Paris. It just happened,        writing about Paris began to      
and for two specific reasons          gestate in my mind, back in the   
looking back with hindsight.          1980s. Paris has changed          
                                      dramatically since, but in those  
                                      days it was an exasperating       
                                      place, inhabited by very          
Being a savvy traveller, it upset     difficult people, to say the      
me to see how most visitors to        least, and my feelings for it     
Paris (and any other place), do       were far from the phony "I love   
it the wrong way, using               Paris in the spring time" picture 



postcard cultivated by Hollywood.     having embarked on my new         
It was really a love and hate         project, my book on the Aveyron   
passion, and I needed to              which is now more than two thirds 
understand my own heart, which        done.                             
could only happen through                                               
understanding the city.                                                 
                                                                        
                                      Norm:                             
                                                                        
It is the combination of the                                           
above that gave birth to my                                             
3-volume series, "Around and          Can you explain to our audience   
About Paris". As for "Romantic        why Paris is among the top        
Paris", it was their natural          romantic                          
extension in a way. Once I                                              
provided my reader with all the       venues in the world?              
meaty stuff, it was time to                                             
relax, enjoy and feast, and who                                         
does it better than lovers? It                                          
was a book written for lovers,        Thirza:                           
past, present, and future, for                                          
whom Paris, more than any other                                         
city I can think of, has been         Everyone asks me this same        
designed by the gods. This also       question, on every interview. The 
answers your other question. I        answer I give is always the same, 
have so far written four books on     and best resumed in the           
Paris. I have actually written a      introduction to "Romantic Paris". 
fifth book on Paris, targeting        Rather than paraphrase, let me    
children, but have never pursued      quote directly from my book:      
its publication (to my regret),                                         



                                      the past, I travelled into my own 
                                      psyche looking for an answer, but 
"For decades I tried to figure        I came back empty-handed. There   
out why Paris is shrouded in such     simply is no answer. There lies   
mystique. Granted, walks at night     the beauty of the enigma. Paris   
along the Seine are enchanting,       is poetry, Paris is mystery,      
but that alone cannot explain why     Paris is beauty-an exasperating   
the very mention of Paris had         decoy that never quite delivers,  
always conjured up tales of           all the more compelling for its   
romance, well before it was           imperfection, the archetypal      
blessed with gas or electricity,      reservoir of all our              
well before its exquisitely lit       passions...."                     
street-corners were replicated                                          
the world over in black-and-white                                       
print. After all, medieval Paris                                        
was a dark den of filth, reeking      Norm:                             
with nauseous stench, and the two                                       
sinister prison fortresses that                                         
jutted out of its skyline could                                         
hardly have been conducive to         If you had to choose six unique   
romance. Not to mention the 32        romantic venues in Paris, where   
rotting corpses dangling in the       would they be and why?            
offing when the royal gallows was                                       
used to full capacity. Yet the                                          
myth has been perpetuated for a                                         
good thousand years.                  Thirza:                           
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      Very tough question, and it       
I racked my brains, I dug into        sometimes depends on the season   



or time of day or night, because                                        
"romantic" implies seclusion.                                           
                                      *Buttes Chaumont, which has all   
                                      the ingredients of a Brahms       
                                      symphony that would have appealed 
*Definitely the two western tips      to the likes of Lord Byron: a     
of the two central islands, Ile       grotto, a dramatic waterfall, a   
de la Cité and Ile Saint-Louis,      lake with weeping willows, sheer  
but down the steps, at water          cliffs topped by a Temple de      
level, and in the case of Ile         l'Amour-what better place for a   
Saint-Louis, preferably after         lovers' kiss with eastern Paris   
dark.                                 spread like a carpet at your      
                                      feet!                             
                                                                        
                                                                        
*The tiny place de Fürstemberg,                                        
near the church of                    * Palais Royal (the home of       
Saint-Germain-des-Prés: it is a      writer Colette and Jean Cocteau), 
rare jewel after dark, but is         in early morning, before the      
also quite heavenly in the            arrival of the crowds, or at      
morning, when one can meanwhile       night time, after they have       
take in the delightful little         departed.                         
Delacroix Museum.                                                       
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      * Montmartre, especially on the   
*Place Dauphine, on the western       little frequented side streets,   
side of Ile de la Cité, also         again in the early hours of the   
preferably after dark.                morning, or after dark.           
                                                                        



                                      boat on the river Seine. These    
                                      come in different categories and  
Norm:                                 different price ranges, my        
                                      favourite fleet being "Les Yachts 
                                      de Paris". Nothing equals in      
                                      terms of urban beauty and glamour 
Could you describe to our             the city's river views, even more 
audience six unique wedding           so when seen from the water. Try  
venues in Paris to celebrate a        to prolong your festivities into  
marriage, and explain why you         the night so as to enjoy the      
would consider these venues to be     splendour of the floodlighting.   
most unique?                                                            
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      Les Yachts de Paris               
Thirza:                                                                 
                                      10, quai Henri IV, 75004          
                                                                        
                                      Tel: 01 44 54 14 70               
Once more the choice is tough, so                                       
I am trying to be as eclectic as                                        
I can, to match people's                                                
different tastes.                     *At a price, every monument of    
                                      Paris is for hire, even the       
                                      Château of Versailles. If I were 
                                      to hire one of them (or just part 
                                      of one) for my wedding, I would   
                                      probably go for the               
*Without any shadow of doubt, my      Jacquemart-André Museum, because 
first choice would go to a cruise     as the one-time home of the       



famous art collectors Edouard                                           
André and Nélie Jacquemart, it                                        
has a private feel,to a certain        Le Pré Catelan             
extent, despite its palatial                                            
glamour, which makes it an ideal      Bois de Boulogne                  
venue for a wedding occasion. The                                       
couple's fabulous art collection      Route de Suresnes, 75016          
is on permanent display on the                                          
magnificent premises of the           Tel 01 44 14 41 14                
museum.                                                                 
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                       *If you wish to have it          
Musée Jacquemart-André       countrified while staying in      
                                      central Paris, you can opt for    
158, Boulevard Haussmann, 75008      the discreet magnificence of the  
                                      peach-coloured Laurent, in the    
                                     lower gardens of the              
                                      Champs-Elysées, and still enjoy  
                                      the leafy surroundings of one of  
*Countrified weddings are always      the city's most prestigious       
appealing, and the Bois de            neighbourhoods (the presidential  
Boulogne is as countrified as you     residence is across the street).  
can get within the boundaries of      Make sure to hire a dining room   
Paris. Le Pré Catelan offers         that comes with a terrace.        
luxury and refinement amidst                                            
beautiful green surroundings,                                           
combined with the the renowned Le      Le Laurent                  
Nôtre's top-quality catering.                                          
                                      41, avenue Gabriel, 75008         



                                      Tél: 01 49 54 74 74              
Tel: 01 42 25 00 39                                                     
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      *The avenue d'Iéna, in the plush 
*There was once an excellent film     neighbourhood of the 16th         
by Chabrol, Le charme discret de      arrondissement, is home to a      
la bourgeoisie. That kind of          magnificent town mansion from the 
charm, which was first and            late 19th century, decorated in   
foremost that of the old              traditional, period French style  
aristocracy, was beautifully          and overlooking a beautiful       
captured by Marcel Proust. It         garden. Ideal for a wedding in    
still lingers on Faubourg Saint       grand style.                      
Germain in the 7th                                                      
arrondissement, notably in the                                          
18th century townhouse, now the                                         
home of the celebrated Ecole           La Maison des Arts et       
Polytechnique alumni, where many      Métiers                          
of the nation's creme de la creme                                       
elite were trained.                   9bis avenue d'Iéna               
                                                                        
                                      75116 Paris                       
                                                                        
La Maison des                   Tel: 01 40 69 27 00               
Polytechniciens                                                         
                                                                        
12, rue de Poitiers                                                     
                                                                        
75007 Paris                                                             
                                                                        



                                      of that same arrondissement.      
Norm:                                 There is a legal procedure to go  
                                      by and you will need to seek      
                                      legal advice for that. If you are 
                                      considering a civil marriage in   
If you are planning to have     France, a lawyer is the person to 
a destination wedding in Paris,       consult, obviously (although I do 
how far in advance should you         know how it works, this is not    
prepare for the wedding, and          the right forum to expand on      
where would you go to find out        administrative issues). You may   
about the legal requirements?         also require the service of a     
                                      notaire, should you be dealing    
                                      with property issues. Your lawyer 
                                      can refer you to a notaire. On    
Thirza:                               the other hand, you don't need to 
                                      be a French resident for the      
                                      celebration of your religious or  
                                      non-religious ceremony, nor do    
There is a strict               you need any legal advice for     
separation between state and          that. However, you should         
church in France (see the recent      definitely prepare for it as      
headlines about the Islamic           early as possible because, as     
veil.....). This is important to      they say, "the early bird catches 
understand because only civil         the prey". Certainly months       
marriage is recognised by French      ahead, if not a year, should you  
law. It is celebrated by the          plan your wedding to take place   
Mayor of the arrondissement where     in spring or early summer.        
one of the spouses resides, and                                         
the ceremony takes place in the                                         
Salle de Marriage of the Mairie                                         



Norm:                                 fairy tale. As an extra bonus,    
                                      this is a medium-range restaurant 
                                      pricewise.                        
                                                                        
If you had to choose three                                        
of the most romantic restaurants                                        
in Paris, which ones would you         Le Coupe-Chou               
choose and why?                                                         
                                      9, rue de Lanneau, 75005          
                                                                        
                                      Tel: 01 46 33 68 69               
Thirza:                                                           
                                                                        
                                                                        
                                      * Le Beauvilliers in Montmartre,  
                               on the other hand, is a pricy     
* If by romantic we imply             place, but as good as it comes    
secluded cosiness which is what       and cheaper than others that fall 
lovers usually seek, and since I      into that category. Here you step 
haven't yet focused on winter,        into the romantic splendour of    
the Coupe Chou comes first to my      the Second Empire in the heart of 
mind, located in an ancient           real Montmartre, just a few       
medieval house in the Latin           minutes'walk from the differently 
Quarter, a few steps away from        (yet equally) romantic and        
the Sorbonne. It's all dark nooks     cottagy Lapin Agile cabaret,      
and crannies, which are graced        where I would head after dinner,  
with glowing log fires. If only       for a night filled with old       
it could snow more often in Paris     French songs, sketches and hearty 
than it does these days! It would     laughter.                         
then be altogether fit for a                                            



                                                                        
                                                                        
Le Beauvilliers                  Lapérouse,                
                                                                        
52, rue Lamarck, 75018                51, quai des Grands-Augustins,    
                                      75006                             
Tel: 01 42 54 54 42                                                     
                                      Tel: 01 43 26 68 04               
                                                                        
                                                                        
* Lapérouse, a pricy place too,                                        
cannot be overlooked either, its      Norm:                             
scintillating setting having been                                       
the rendezvous of Venus's                                               
protegés. There is even a                                              
private boudoir-lounge where the      If a couple were planning to      
two of you can dine alone             honeymoon in Paris, and were not  
undisturbed. It comes with            sure which area to stay in, which 
elaborate, dainty decorations and     three areas of the city would you 
is named La Belle Otero after the     choose and why?                   
famous, fiery courtesan. If you                                         
are worried for your good                                               
reputation, note that France's                                          
most honoured members of literati      Thirza:                     
also dined here regularly, Victor                                       
Hugo, Alexandre Dumas, George                                           
Sand among them. Remember that                                          
the French have a sophisticated,                                        
unpuritanical approach to love.                                         
                                      Saint-Germain-des-Prés/Luxembour 



g area, Paris at its most             "hôtels de charme" to choose     
sophisticated, colourful and          among and is within a few         
arty, lined with extraordinary        minutes' walk from both the       
boutiques that will be hard to        Marais, on the Right Bank, and    
resist. It boasts a greater           the Latin Quarter on the Left     
number of "hôtels de charme"         Bank.                             
than any other part of the city,                                        
which speaks for itself, and                                            
that's exactly the kind of hotel                                        
a honeymooning couple would           Norm:                             
choose to stay at, short of                                             
choosing one of the city's luxury                                       
hotels.                                                                 
                                       Is Paris a safe city to     
                                      visit?                            
                                                                        
The Marais is similar in spirit                                         
but is less spacious, and doesn't                                       
have a park. It also has several       Thirza:                     
"hôtels de charme", though not                                         
quite so many as Saint-Germain.                                         
                                                                        
                                       No city and no place on    
                                      earth is full proof. As I am      
Ile Saint-Louis because it is a       writing this interview South East 
self-contained miniature of           Asia is subjected to a deluvian   
romance, lined with boutiques and     tragedy, all the way to the       
eating places of all sorts, and       eastern shores of Africa. Paris   
conveniently located for every        is as safe as a big city can be,  
part of Paris. It has four            but one should always use one's   



common sense and avoid carrying                                         
cash and other valuables when                                           
going out. Pickpocketing is rife,                                       
and I have been victim to it many     Obviously spring time is unique.  
a time myself- A brief moment of      Good weather is never guaranteed  
distraction and your wallet is        though, no matter what time of    
gone. Leave all your valuables in     year, but should the gods be with 
your safe, and carry a photocopy      you, then spring, by definition,  
of your passport rather than the      is the season of romance, and an  
original document. Watch out even     early feel of spring can even be  
at the airport and hold on to         detected as early as on           
your handbag in all public places     Valentine's.                      
(including your taxi: some                                              
delinquents may open the door and                                       
snatch your bag at a traffic                                            
light or in a traffic jam. They        I personally have a         
often operate on motorcycles and      distaste for July and August,     
that has happened to me too). Be      especially from the middle of     
sensible but not paranoid.            July on. Most Parisians are       
                                      replaced by tourists, often in    
                                      organised crowds, and it just     
                                      isn't it. This can also happen at 
Norm:                                 weekends during spring because    
                                      Europeans nowadays are very fond  
                                      of weekend city breaks. Fall is a 
                                      beautiful time of year, often     
When is the best time to visit        accompanied by a lingering Indian 
Paris from the point of view of       summer, which the golden beauty   
climate, crowds, travel deals,        of the trees contribute to        
etc?                                  enhance.                          



                                                                        
                                      Norm:                      
Strange as it may seem, I find                                          
Paris particularly romantic in                                          
winter, when the leafless trees                                         
allow you to enjoy the                How easy or difficult is it to    
architecture of its buildings.        get around Paris?                 
After dark the city is altogether                                       
magical,as its street lamps don                                         
it with an amber light. It can be                                       
cold, but all you have to do is        Thirza:                    
dress accordingly and make the                                          
most of the fact that you are                                           
likely to be alone out there and                                        
the entire city will belong to        It is extremely easy to get       
you and your sweetheart, as you       around Paris. Public              
stroll through the streets or by      transportation (buses, métro and 
the river into the late hours of      RER express trains) is very       
the night. At Christmas time you      efficient and many lines run      
will also enjoy the festive           beyond midnight. Taxis are easily 
decorations, which, it being          available except on weekend       
Paris, tend to be exquisitely         nights. They also get grabbed     
elegant and tasteful.                 into thin air as soon as it       
                                      starts raining. However, Paris is 
As for travel deals, they are the     regularly disrupted by protest    
same all over the world. Prices       and other demonstrations (the     
shoot up in the summer and            French thrive on them), which can 
plummet in the low season.            paralyse the city, usually from   
                                      2:00 pm on, often with no         
                                      forewarning. It is therefore good 



to stay in central Paris so that      of things to be done and enjoyed  
you can make your way back to         on all budgets, including low     
your hotel on foot, should you        budgets. Paris can truly be       
experience one of those typically     enjoyed romantically on a         
French "happenings".                  shoestring. The best of Paris is  
                                      strolling through its streets,    
                                      and that costs little or nothing. 
                                      I have designed several romantic  
Norm:                                 walks for you in "Romantic        
                                      Paris". That's over and above the 
                                      scores of walks woven into        
                                      "Around and About Paris". Put on  
Is there anything else         your most comfortable footgear    
that you wish to add about            and venture into the city,        
Romantic Paris that we have not       including in the heart of winter. 
discussed?                            Soak it all up. And try, just     
                                      once, to stay up all night, so    
                                      that you can enjoy a sunrise      
                                      either from the river, or from    
Thirza:                               the foot of the Sacré Coeur.     
                                                                        
                                               &n